Acting Bratty vs A Brat

Brat: an ill-mannered immature person 

This is usually what people think of when they hear the words Brat and Bratty. There are those who identify as being "bratty" yet do not consider themselves a Brat.

A Brat is a person who has a "make me" attitude. Everything has to be forced with them. While there are some people that this is an understood part of the relationship, the majority of people with this attitude tend to be frowned upon. 


They are seen as a headache, and often avoided as the person being a Brat. They can't understand why everyone is always "picking on them", not willing to look to their own behavior as the cause.

Brats are attention whores to the detriment of others involved in the relationship. Manipulating every situation to their advantage. Blatantly or passive aggressively.

Importance of My Submission

I take my submission seriously.  It is very personal and sacred to me. It is private, for home, bedroom, lifestyle, kink and everyday discreet settings. It is not something I enjoy on the fly as if I'm eating a bag of potato chips. Neither is my submission something I take as seriously as Goreans do (north or south). 

Being a submissive or a slave is not for everyone. We all have our own activity levels within the BDSM Lifestyle and our own different Kinks. In my opinion this makes it all the more interesting, with chances to learn more things and meet new people.